{"id":1081,"date":"2024-04-28T14:47:35","date_gmt":"2024-04-28T14:47:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/?p=1081"},"modified":"2024-04-28T14:50:17","modified_gmt":"2024-04-28T14:50:17","slug":"szulokikoto-3","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/?p=1081","title":{"rendered":"Sz\u00fcl\u0151kik\u00f6t\u0151 3."},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1081\" class=\"elementor elementor-1081\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2e026f93 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"2e026f93\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c95f6e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9c95f6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">A felszabad\u00edt\u00f3 diagn\u00f3zis\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2e0b8626 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2e0b8626\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><\/p>\n<p><b>Ha az ember sok\u00e1ig nem tudja, mi a baj a gyerek\u00e9vel, olyankor egy k\u00e9zhez kapott diagn\u00f3zis felszabad\u00edt\u00f3 lehet. Ez sokszor hely\u00e9re teszi az addig \u00e9rthetetlen r\u00e9szeket. Ugyanakkor term\u00e9szetes reakci\u00f3 a sz\u00fcl\u0151k, a k\u00f6rnyezet r\u00e9sz\u00e9r\u0151l, ha kezdetben hallani sem akar r\u00f3la, hogy az \u0151 gyereke m\u00e1s.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ced5d04 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ced5d04\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">ADHD, autizmus, szenzoross\u00e1g\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a0f237 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6a0f237\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">N\u00e9ha \u201ecsak\u201d ennek megfogalmaz\u00e1sa a hi\u00e1nyz\u00f3 puzzle-darab a k\u00e9pb\u0151l. M\u00e9gis van, hogy t\u00f6bb \u00e9vig tart\u00f3 proced\u00fara, mire kider\u00fcl egy gyerekr\u0151l, hogy nincs vele baj, csak m\u00e1sk\u00e9pp m\u0171k\u00f6dik az idegrendszere. A diagn\u00f3zis sokszor hely\u00e9re teszi az addig \u00e9rthetetlen r\u00e9szeket a gyerek viselked\u00e9s\u00e9ben.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A stigmatiz\u00e1ci\u00f3t\u00f3l val\u00f3 f\u00e9lelem gyakori \u00e9s jogos is a sz\u00fcl\u0151k k\u00f6r\u00e9ben, emiatt neh\u00e9z egy ilyen diagn\u00f3zisr\u0151l ny\u00edltan besz\u00e9lni. De tal\u00e1n pont azzal tudunk tenni ellene, ha nagyon term\u00e9szetesen f\u00f6lv\u00e1llaljuk: igen, az \u00e9n gyerekemnek van egy ilyen diagn\u00f3zisa. Ugyanis ha ez saj\u00e1t magunkban rendben van, m\u00e1r szemben\u00e9zt\u00fcnk vele, elgy\u00e1szoltuk, hogy a mi gyerek\u00fcnk m\u00e1sk\u00e9pp m\u0171k\u00f6dik, akkor ezt valahogy a k\u00f6rnyezet is \u00e9rzi.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-545c2ee elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"545c2ee\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">A neurodiverzit\u00e1s m\u00e1rpedig \u00f6r\u00f6kl\u0151dik\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e59d413 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e59d413\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">De ha a megfogalmaz\u00e1somban benne bujk\u00e1l, hogy hib\u00e1ztatom magam, valahol \u00e9n is alul\u00e9rt\u00e9kelem magamat meg a gyereket, akkor nagyon k\u00f6nny\u0171 a m\u00e1siknak \u00edt\u00e9lkeznie f\u00f6l\u00f6ttem. Ha viszont azt mondom: \u201cfigyelj, ez van, az eny\u00e9m ilyen\u201d, ha ezzel b\u00e9k\u00e9be ker\u00fclt\u00fcnk, akkor nem neh\u00e9z megtal\u00e1lni azokat a szavakat, amikkel \u00fagy tudom elmondani a k\u00f6rnyezetnek, hogy j\u00f3l \u00e9rtse, nagyobb es\u00e9llyel meg\u00e9rtse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nem mellesleg az is neh\u00e9zs\u00e9g lehet, hogy egy neurodiverzit\u00e1s egy\u00e9rtelm\u0171en \u00f6r\u00f6kl\u0151dik. Emiatt egy diagn\u00f3zis val\u00f3sz\u00edn\u0171leg egyben azt is jelenti, hogy vagy mi magunk vagy a p\u00e1runk is kicsit ilyen \u00e9s ezzel is ilyenkor szembes\u00fcl\u00fcnk.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-70f92fe elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"70f92fe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Amikor kider\u00fcl a \u201em\u00e1ss\u00e1g\u201d, azt el kell gy\u00e1szolni\n<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-def7227 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"def7227\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A helyzettel val\u00f3 b\u00e9kek\u00f6t\u00e9shez fontos v\u00e9gigmenni a saj\u00e1t folyamatunkon, ezen szinte mindenki v\u00e9gigmegy. Teljesen term\u00e9szetes, hogy az ember el\u0151sz\u00f6r hallani se akar r\u00f3la, d\u00fch\u00f6s miatta vagy alkudozik, rem\u00e9nykedik. \u201eCsak m\u00e9g ezt a fejleszt\u0151 torn\u00e1t v\u00e9gigcsin\u00e1ljuk, \u00e9s akkor majd nem lesz m\u00e1s!\u201d. De. Ut\u00e1na is az lesz.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ezek norm\u00e1lis, \u00e1ltal\u00e1nos reakci\u00f3k. A folyamat pedig hasonl\u00edt egy gy\u00e1szfolyamathoz. Amiben egyszer csak elj\u00f6n az a pont, amikor az ember elgy\u00e1szolta, megb\u00e9k\u00e9lt vele, hogy ez mindig \u00edgy marad \u00e9s \u0151szint\u00e9n \u00e9rzi: ok\u00e9, ez van, az \u00e9n gyerekem ilyen.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d7d9ded e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"d7d9ded\" data-element_type=\"container\" data-e-type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-24aa1b6 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"24aa1b6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/?page_id=2\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">K\u00e9rd\u00e9sem van! <\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A felszabad\u00edt\u00f3 diagn\u00f3zis Ha az ember sok\u00e1ig nem tudja, mi a baj a gyerek\u00e9vel, olyankor egy k\u00e9zhez kapott diagn\u00f3zis felszabad\u00edt\u00f3 lehet. Ez sokszor hely\u00e9re teszi az addig \u00e9rthetetlen r\u00e9szeket. Ugyanakkor term\u00e9szetes reakci\u00f3 a sz\u00fcl\u0151k, a k\u00f6rnyezet r\u00e9sz\u00e9r\u0151l, ha kezdetben hallani sem akar r\u00f3la, hogy az \u0151 gyereke m\u00e1s. ADHD, autizmus, szenzoross\u00e1g N\u00e9ha \u201ecsak\u201d ennek megfogalmaz\u00e1sa a hi\u00e1nyz\u00f3 puzzle-darab a k\u00e9pb\u0151l&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":60,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"essential-blocks-fullwidth-template.php","format":"standard","meta":{"_eb_attr":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[17],"tags":[25,26,24,27,28],"class_list":["post-1081","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog","tag-adhd","tag-autizmus","tag-nehezgyerekek","tag-pedagogia","tag-vanmegoldas"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1081","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1081"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1081\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1085,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1081\/revisions\/1085"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/60"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1081"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1081"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/szulokikoto.hu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1081"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}